Overcome Jealousy
 
Are you one of those people who cannot help feeling jealous? Are you constantly worrying that your partner might leave you for someone else and you feel that you must stop this from happening at all costs? It’s true that a little jealousy is not harmful in any way, but if it becomes so severe that you are finding yourself always fighting, it is a very serious problem. A lot of couples fail to overcome jealousy and thus ending their relationships.

It is natural to have your partner all to yourself and a lot of times it is the main factor in maintaining the love in a relationship. The problem is that some people are just incapable of dealing with the jealousy that they are feeling and this resulted in worrying about everything and suspecting their partners of doing some things behind their backs. I know this because I have experience in this.

I was a pretty normal girl while growing up, always polite to people and never ever being involved in fights with other kids. When I first started dating my boyfriend, it was such a good feeling that I thought nothing could go wrong. We were so in love and I knew that I was the only woman in his eyes. But after a few months, things started to get a little cold and the fire in our relationship sort of died down. This worried me.

I started to suspect that he had another woman and this is the reason why we were seeing each other less often. I know that he was busy with work but I thought that he should still have time for me despite this. I was asking his friends whether he was dating another girl but they all said he wasn’t. This did nothing to help me as I thought that they were just covering up for him.

It got so crazy that I was pretending to be another woman and sent him emai9ls and text messages seeing if he was going to take the bait. Of course he did not. But I still felt that he was good at hiding it. I asked for some advice from my friends and sisters but they all said that it was all my imagination and I should just put it out of my mind. It was easier said than done, they did not know just how hurt I was feeling. There is no worse feeling than feeling sorry for yourself because your partner might be cheating on you and laughing while doing it.

I went online and found some people with the same problems I was having. I was relieved for a while knowing that there were others like me, but still there was no solution to my problem. I then read a book that changed everything. I followed some tricks in order to suppress my jealous feelings and it worked. Although it was not temporary, I knew that I was on to something. Reading the book further helped me understand the roots of my problem.

The way to overcome jealousy is by overcoming yourself. Changing the way I was behaving and knowing the real causes of my anxiety greatly helped me get rid of my jealousy and ultimately bring back the love in my relationship.

My boyfriend noticed the change happening in me and naturally became closer to me again. It was the same feeling when we started dating and it felt really good. I was no longer getting angry at everything he did and did not worry whenever he was out with his friends. All the things I was afraid of happening was all in my head and the book drilled that into me until I understood it.

I know you are feeling down right now because of jealousy, but do not worry because there is always hope. If you want to feel good again and never have to worry about your partner, Check This Out and see for yourself how it can help you overcome jealousy.

5/21/2011 10:42:56 am

Thanks for stopping by my blog. I just wanted to say that some older men love the jealousy thing, they think it is flattering. I am not a jealous person so I learned so much from your article. Your article made me feel good about jealousy.

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12/30/2011 06:04:03 pm

good post

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1/25/2012 02:45:47 pm

Fine info bro

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1/28/2012 05:39:41 am

good post

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3/23/2012 05:06:20 pm

will be restored before long

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